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Okay, so we all know what essentialism is, right? In its simplest form, it’s the whole “men are from mars, women are from venus” thing that gets thrown around, saying that (a) there is such a thing as an inherently female or male body (b) all people are either female or male (c) and the biology of their bodies determines their personality/characteristics/abilities. People who like to pretend that women talk more than men because OVARIES or something. Or that a dick makes a person a man and that having one is a ~magical power source~ for channeling the mental energy to do math.

It’s bullshit, basically. The science hasn’t been firmly established at all, and whatever the case, variation between individuals trumps variation between groups. You can’t say “women suck at math ha ha! and men r super good at it because DICK” when there are individual women who are fucking geniuses at it and individual men who cannot balance their checkbooks (if we had checkbooks anymore; do youngsters even remember what those are omg i am old). And you can’t say that women are natural nurturers and men suck at it when there’s women out there who cannot stand the thought of caring for a child and men who love being really involved dads or become kindergarten teachers or… hell, HAVE YOU HEARD OF MR. ROGERS.

Anyway. So there’s that. And there’s essentialism about sexuality, which is connected. Where people put articles in Psychology Today about how there’s a “gay (male)” brain and how it’s similar to the brains of women. Conflating their essentialiized idea of gender with sexuality and saying, OH, if you wanna fuck dudes you must be like a woman! Etc. etc. And the hetero/homo binary itself is essentialist, though that one has a lot of defenders across the board.

And basically this show raises the most gorgeous middle finger to all that shit without even having to get didactic. It just sails the fuck in and says

fuck you, no. Biology is not destiny. Not for any individual, and not even for… [MASSIVE SPOILERS - srsly don’t read before watching, spoilers are important on this show and you want to avoid them )
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English Below

Si vous êtes un ami sur DW, vous pouvez voir cette entrée. Vous avez sûrement remarqué que je n'écris plus ici, en grande partie parce que mes parents lisent ce blogue et que j'ai beaucoup de choses à dire que ma famille élargie ne doit pas voir. Je déménage donc Le Pouding à l'arsenic dans une version améliorée et moderne à www.arsenicpudding.net. Tout le monde est invité!
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This post is filtered. If you can read it, it's because you are a friend on DW. You have no doubt noticed that I no longer write here, mostly because ma parents read this blog and I have a lot to say that is not my extended family's business. I am therefore moving Arsenic Pudding to www.arsenicpudding.net in a new and improved version. Everyone is invited!

Current AO3 Meme

May. 23rd, 2013 01:38 pm
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I have 26 works currently archived on Archive of Our Own (the last six or seven posted v. recently: I am working to get MORE stuff up there--and in fact, have even worked out an ending to White Flower/White Tree so I can post it, WOOT).

Pick a number betwen 1 (most recently posted) and 26 (first posted)and I'll tell you up to three things that I like about it!

(Have also realized in the wake of reading the discussions on Amazon Kindle Worlds that I need to start donating regularly to OTW: I've lapsed the last few years due to health and financial issues.)
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meme from, like, everybody:

I currently have 75 works at AO3. Pick a number between 1 and 75 and I'll tell you three things I currently like about that story.

eta: so that this entry contains more than a meme - the more I hear about the Amazon Kindle Worlds mess, the more it reminds me of what I've read about the early days of the Pocket Books Star Trek tie-in novels, which I gather fans were initially excited about as a way to professionalize/monetize but later pretty much abandoned once the level of creative bankruptcy necessary for participation became clear. Plus ca change, neh?

Whoops!!!

May. 23rd, 2013 09:04 am
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I accidentally have two rooms at WisCon! Aaaaack!

It is a governor's club room with king size bed, shower, access to the 12th floor lounge with free drinks and food.

email me if you want it! if no one emails in the next couple of hours I will cancel the extra reservation. lizhenry@gmail.com.

Completely forgot that I booked this room *at last year's wiscon* and then i took over tempest's extra room. AHahahahahah.... fail.

Reading in progress

May. 22nd, 2013 10:32 pm
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Last night I started reading Karen Lord's second novel, The best of all possible worlds. Damn, it's good! I think I see one development coming, and I don't care. She does all sorts of intersectional things, naturally and incidentally, which makes fine prep for WisCon.

Speaking of WisCon, I made my first deliverable today, dropping things off before the final pre-con meeting with the hotel. I recognized WisCon people in the lobby -- and not just on the concom, either. Curtains up in 5, 4, 3....

pre-Wiscon post

May. 22nd, 2013 05:33 pm
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I'm mostly packed for Wiscon, though it looks like the weather's gonna be a bit colder than it usually is when I'm in Madison. I hope I'm bringing enough layers. I have to get up at the ungodly time of 3:30 a.m. (my first flight takes off at 7 a.m.).

My schedule is here.

crap

May. 22nd, 2013 06:21 pm
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I have been so busy enjoying life and processing this radical perspective change thing that I have totally failed to get ahead on work before wiscon. in fact, I m a half day behind already, and am too fucking distracted to deal with it. I keep trying tho

five things

May. 22nd, 2013 03:02 pm
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[personal profile] petra is writing ficlets! And she wrote one for me! It's Alex Drake from Ashes to Ashes and Sammy Dunbar from Michael: Tuesdays and Thursdays. If you haven't seen Michael: Tuesdays and Thursdays, Sammy is Holly Day from the first season of Slings & Arrows, as a book editor. All the ambition, amorality and manipulativeness in a much smaller arena.

Packing for Wiscon. Cannot fit all my Jo Walton books in my carryon even if I don't bring clothes. Should I check a bag? I don't think I own another.

Moderating Choice Feminism: Many people say that feminism is about providing more choices for people. There are people who, faced with this variety of choices, choose the same thing that the kyriarchy would have chosen for them. Can feminism support a variety of choices? How much variety? If there are choices feminism can't support, can it speak without massively disrespecting the women who make those choices? 10:00 PM - 11:15 PM Sunday, Conference 4. Competing for your attention with parties, Genderfloomp, and bed.

I have a five-hour layover in MSP on Monday, on the way back. What should I do?

Reading Reading Classes and The Highest Frontier for Wiscon. Think the last book I finished was State of Wonder. Next will probably be a reread of one these I'm putting in my suitcase for Wiscon.
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This excellent LunaMetrics post by Dan Wilkerson includes an infographic & table with information about how to size images for more effective use in social media. Very useful for freelancers, bloggers, artists, educators, writers, and anyone needing to communicate visually across a variety of social media platforms.

Best of all -- this resource will be updated by LunaMetrics on an ongoing basis!

2 Questions

May. 22nd, 2013 11:16 am
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11. What features do you think Dreamwidth should have that it doesn't currently?

Well, I'd still like a blockquote button, and perhaps someday I will be able to just think at the keyboard and it will transcribe all those nebulous half-chewed thoughts and correct the typoes and post for me.
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I'm going to use this post to collect links so that I can later read, summarize, and think more about it!

cut for length )

In Newport, Rhode Island today

May. 21st, 2013 09:49 pm
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Saw 5 Gilded Age mansions in one day, which my mother wanted to see. The only mansion that offered a tour of the servants' quarters was the last one we visited, by which time it was too late to take said tour, which wasn't included in the main tour package, so we only visited the main house and gardens. It was very much about the super-wealthy's lifestyles, not the working classes', all around.

Cool trees, though.

Yesterday after my mom got her Premium Outlet shopping done I managed to get a detour through Providence for a couple of hours on a brief Lovecraft-themed visit. Didn't see his manuscripts and wouldn't have known what to ask to see anyhow -- there's a extensive catalogue I briefly leafed through. The library where they're housed is set to close for 15 months of renovations just days from now. I did see his tomb and a few notable locations, including the Providence Athenaeum. Haven't had time to read any more of his stories on this trip, though, and didn't have internet access last night.

It's been a pretty cool trip, but not a leisurely one. I barely have had time to process all the sight-seeing. At the end of the day I'm nor sure how much I registered besides what consisted of my staring at maps acting as the navigator. (Even when we got a GPS signal yesterday the app was way off on our location.)

extra space!

May. 21st, 2013 02:02 pm
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halloa! i will be flying out to WisCon tomorrow, with Moomin! So excited.

our 3rd roommate will not be getting in till friday morning, so if you need a space to crash on Wed. or Thurs night, or need a spot to rest up during the day, just ask!

Yay yay yay I am very excited. But I have to keep thinking about work for another couple hours here. I worked late last night figuring that today my head would be full of packing and plans and it is VERY DISTRACTING. :)

breed names

May. 21st, 2013 01:41 pm
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I'm wondering if "rat terrier" is a misspelling of, oh, I don't know, rat TERROR.

Because the two new littles (Daisy and Audrey), each one weighing in at about 12 pounds each, never let out of the house except on leashes with me attached (and Katie, the chocolate lab of love and peace by our sides) have managed to TERRIFY the pack of pyrenees who live down the road.

These pyrenees (they're not Great Pyrenees but a related breed--our neighbor does rescue, and has three of them) attacked us in earlier (when we were walking our OTHER dogs) to such an extent we gave up because of fear of injury. They terrorize Judy by going after her car and chasing her for a mile (they chase me in the truck too, but I'm not as terrified as Judy is).

But when they see the Dynamite Duo approaching, the most aggressive one stands back and watches in confusion as they hurl themselves in the air and bark and growl invective at him.

The next most aggressive crosses the road, stands in the ditch with his back to us, and barks violently at the invisible dragon in that field who needs his utmost attention, while, Daisy and Audrey, ditto above.

The least aggressive sees us coming and immediately ducks off the road into the field and gives us a wide berth.

I mean, WTF? These little sweet puppy-eyed miniatures terrorize the neighborhood. All the big dogs who are left to roam freely (as well as the pyrenees pack) avoid us like....like....like I don't know what.

FBND Rewatch: Episode 1

May. 21st, 2013 01:41 am
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"Flower Boy Next Door" is a thoroughly adorable, kind-hearted, genderfucky (there's basically a role reversal in the main pairing, with a sweet and bubbly hero and a serious and angsty heroine) little Kdrama which I fell head over heels in love with a couple months ago. In the past I've talked about problems I have with the standard het Romance tropes -- well, this series beautifully dances around all of them. My Tumblr tag for the show (warning: spoilers at link) has no less than 66 pages of entries! LOL I'm rewatching it and doing meta on the eps now that summer's here and I have the time.

All the episodes are available for legal and free streaming here, if you want to try it out.

ep 1 meta with spoilers for the whole series )

Auralphilia, by Sprat

May. 20th, 2013 10:28 pm
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Podfic. RayK/Fraser. NSFW. Dirty talk. Rimming. So many false starts before I made it through the second sentence without cracking up. Note to self: close the windows before you start recording porn.

Text here: Auralphilia, by Sprat



All my podfic is on AO3 here.

Podfic and other recordings are all here now, but I'm going to take down Keeping Kowalski when I need space; it's the biggest, and has the fewest listens.
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